I hate my mother so much.?

What kind of a mother is that? Technically she is only going for the money if your dad put your name and your brother in his will she will definitely ask you to give it to her. If I were you talk to your dad about this situation and figure out. A mother of 2 should not be depending on government money, should be working and helping you guys out. $14 is alot more than just government money. As for your mother why she wants you to move to your dad? Did they separate bad when they had you guys? Maybe he did something wrong to her so that is why she is asking for the money. But then again that is just selfish. Sometimes you gotta sacrifice things. I meant like go finish your school but sacrifice that it'll take you an hour to go to school. If you can stay abit longer after school and study. The days your working you should stay at your mom because its convenient for you. Or just be cold with your mom and say she doesn't care about u guys but herself or somewhere in that line. Your last year of high school is important for you and you want to attend a good school and perhaps help your mother after the schooling. I'm sure she'll see what your going through not just her. Ask her why after 9 yrs not seeing/talking to your dad she suddenly contacts him? For what? If your mom tries to switch subject then she cant handle the truth of being a selfish mom and always depending on government and is going after the money. A mother should be open with her kids. I am a mother and what my grandma told me i'm going to tell you. A mother is always there from good and bad, she should accept what is infront of her not just keep taking it.. I hope this helps..