Whtat did HE mean by this?

my guy and I split up for 2 months. he came back when i had a windfall.i spent alot on him and posh hotels.giving him cash etc..now he is pestering me to give him alot of money at xmas to buy his family (who don't speak to me) a xmas present.,y funds are running low and i am putting it off, and he is haring me with text messages like 'what are you at you badger' etc...should i be annoyed?